So yeah...I really slacked off this past week...or so... *sigh* I did just a couple of devos and exactly no blogs. But I'm hoping to get back on track....with each of the aforementioned.
Day 14 - Today I will take another step toward forgiving someone I've struggled to forgive.
Apparently God is really wanting to work on this forgiveness thing with me...because it is probably the biggest struggle I have right now. I do have to say, the bitterness is beginning to subside. For that, I am much happier....literally. Have you ever had that shirt where the tag just bugs the back of your neck all day long? You scratch, you adjust, you do anything you can think of but it still just irritates the heck out of you? Getting rid of bitterness is like getting rid of that tag!
Unfortunately, just because I'm not bitter does not mean that I have forgiven. Through reading this devotion this morning I realized what is holding me back - I want justice. But as Sheila Walsh puts it, "When we forgive...We realize that we won't find justice in this world - it doesn't live here." I may not feel like forgiving because I don't think its fair. Well guess what folks, as our parents have continually told us, "Life isn't fair!" Forgiveness isn't a feeling, it's a choice. But, oh, what a choice that is! It isn't just a one time thing. Choosing to forgive is a daily choice. Yes, I have forgiven today...but tomorrow, when all of those hurtful thoughts and feelings resurface I have to choose to forgive again...and again...and again.
Today, I choose to forgive. And hopefully tomorrow...and the next day...and the next day...and the next day...
Well, you get the point : )
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Monday, September 12, 2011
Friday, August 19, 2011
At the Root of the Matter
Day 2 - Today I will let your light shine into my hidden places.
This morning I read this challenge and thought my blog was going to be quite boring this evening. I didn't think I had anything to hide from God. But I realized He has been working on a certain area this whole week, I just hadn't been able to admit it to Him (interesting how He knows my secrets before I do...). I have been holding back forgiveness which has led to bitterness and could very quickly lead to hatred. I reread the devotion when I got home from work this afternoon and the concluding verse really stuck out to me - "The Lord says, "Forget what happened before, and do not think about the past. Look at the new thing I am going to do. It is already happening. Don't you see it?" - Isaiah 43:18-19 (NCV)
My lack of forgiveness, my holding on to the past, has me stuck in a place I shouldn't be. I can't be happy with the present, I can't look forward to the future, because a very big part of me is still very much stuck in the past. This realization didn't just hit me today though. It's kind of like watching a mosquito bite your skin - sometimes you can't help but watch in amusement, wondering how it all really works...but what you can't see is the poison that is entering your blood...yeah, it may just cause an itch...but that poison could carry malaria or some other deathly disease. My lack of forgiveness was comfortable. I knew it wasn't good for me, that it would probably cause an irritating itch of bitterness but I never really thought of the potential outcome. What if that irritating itch turned to hatred?
We watched the movie Defiance tonight. It tells the true life story of a forest camp of Jews during WWII...choosing starvation and bitter cold over death camps. My heart is especially broken at the cruelty and unfairness of this world and movies such as this throw my emotions for a loop. I was in tears at all of the hatred that caused such situations. One man had so much hatred in his heart that he created the genocide of an entire race of people. How could this happen? And then it hit me. That's the difference - God is love. Love creates. Hatred destroys.
It was like a slap in the face. At what point would my bitterness grow to hatred? But wait...if bitterness is the seed of hatred, hasn't destruction already begun? Hasn't it already been planted? I have to do something about this. I know that forgiveness is not an easy task but I know that it is essential. I cannot be forgiven unless I first forgive (Mark 11:25-26) and I have made too many mistakes to count. I must stop the destruction and return to the root of all creation - love.
As noted, it won't be an easy process...and it is quite scary. Matthew West recently came out with a song called Strong Enough. It has been very encouraging and I know now that, for me, this song was meant for such a time as this. (Find song and lyrics here.) I'm not strong enough to do this on my own but He can be strong enough for the both of us!
"Look at the new thing I am going to do. It is already happening. Don't you see it?"
This morning I read this challenge and thought my blog was going to be quite boring this evening. I didn't think I had anything to hide from God. But I realized He has been working on a certain area this whole week, I just hadn't been able to admit it to Him (interesting how He knows my secrets before I do...). I have been holding back forgiveness which has led to bitterness and could very quickly lead to hatred. I reread the devotion when I got home from work this afternoon and the concluding verse really stuck out to me - "The Lord says, "Forget what happened before, and do not think about the past. Look at the new thing I am going to do. It is already happening. Don't you see it?" - Isaiah 43:18-19 (NCV)
My lack of forgiveness, my holding on to the past, has me stuck in a place I shouldn't be. I can't be happy with the present, I can't look forward to the future, because a very big part of me is still very much stuck in the past. This realization didn't just hit me today though. It's kind of like watching a mosquito bite your skin - sometimes you can't help but watch in amusement, wondering how it all really works...but what you can't see is the poison that is entering your blood...yeah, it may just cause an itch...but that poison could carry malaria or some other deathly disease. My lack of forgiveness was comfortable. I knew it wasn't good for me, that it would probably cause an irritating itch of bitterness but I never really thought of the potential outcome. What if that irritating itch turned to hatred?
We watched the movie Defiance tonight. It tells the true life story of a forest camp of Jews during WWII...choosing starvation and bitter cold over death camps. My heart is especially broken at the cruelty and unfairness of this world and movies such as this throw my emotions for a loop. I was in tears at all of the hatred that caused such situations. One man had so much hatred in his heart that he created the genocide of an entire race of people. How could this happen? And then it hit me. That's the difference - God is love. Love creates. Hatred destroys.
It was like a slap in the face. At what point would my bitterness grow to hatred? But wait...if bitterness is the seed of hatred, hasn't destruction already begun? Hasn't it already been planted? I have to do something about this. I know that forgiveness is not an easy task but I know that it is essential. I cannot be forgiven unless I first forgive (Mark 11:25-26) and I have made too many mistakes to count. I must stop the destruction and return to the root of all creation - love.
As noted, it won't be an easy process...and it is quite scary. Matthew West recently came out with a song called Strong Enough. It has been very encouraging and I know now that, for me, this song was meant for such a time as this. (Find song and lyrics here.) I'm not strong enough to do this on my own but He can be strong enough for the both of us!
"Look at the new thing I am going to do. It is already happening. Don't you see it?"
